Who I want to be on the web is very important and I have taken some time this past week despite the tight work, school and family life schedule to think through who I want to become on the web. I have been thinking through some key questions like who am I in real life? I have been asking colleagues who know me very well at work, church and community organizations some of the way they would characterize me. This is because the way they know me in real life should be the same way they should know me on the web.
Who am I in real life to my colleagues and community?
Who am I in real life to colleagues? Colleagues know me as very observant and introverted. I am very careful but hard working, proactive and do not rush into taking decisions or actions. I like helping people and volunteering for community services. I like family values and principles that help with a cohesive family. I have experience in raising a family and have counselled and trained others in family leadership. I also like giving advice to others and helping them handle conflicts in relationships. If this is how colleagues know me then I could allocate some time to help my community and colleagues with my website posts.
Who do I hope to be on the web?
I would like to maintain the same image I have in real life and not a different image online, because I want to portray who I am in real life on the web. Character speaks volume, and my web identity matter. People should relate to me in a way that reflects the real me online and not a different person. According to an article on Social Media: Online Persona by Dickinson University, maintaining the same identity in real life and on the web would help to validate my identity, associate my virtual identity with real life identity and help my colleagues and community to understand me more “holistically”.
Why I chose the StarBeth domain name
I chose my domain name StarBeth because it has my first name, and I love seeing stars in the sky on a clear night. Stars point me to how far we could go. No limits to benefits I could provide to colleagues on the web. I would like to share my thoughts and experience in family leadership. For example, how to assume different roles in the family. How to create and maintain a strong family. How to resolve family conflicts, How to discuss and come up with family values that would be of value in the workplace, school, market place and make one a good citizen. I would like to share these family leadership issues and topics with the people I relate with online just as I do in real life by offering relevant insights, counseling, connecting them with books, audios and youtube, tiktok etc materials on family leadership, relationships and family life. I also plan to use my site to document my cooking hobby, to do some online shopping, and to connect with others that have similar interests. I am glad this course has provided me with the skill to transfer the benefits that I have been providing in real life to colleagues and my community on the web too.
I got my photo from Stars: Facts about stellar formation, history and classification




